My brother, Carl, was 40 when he received his new heart. It
arrived just under a year after being placed on the waiting list. I saw him a couple
of month before surgery when he came to Vancouver with his two young daughters
and wife. Watching this man who introduced me to hiking and once cycled across
Canada was humbling. He maintained his good humour even when fifty feet of
walking caused him to become breathless; he carried on, finding his footing while
mortality dogged him every step of the way.
Finally, someone who was on the organ donor registry did
pass on. A man, 10 years my brother’s senior, died in a car crash. The match
was good and Carl was given a precious gift.
Carl just celebrated his 55th birthday. Although
on anti-rejection drugs for life, he is once again a healthy man who cycles,
cross country skis and works in the garden.
He tells me that the average life span of a transplanted
heart is 24 years. The longest anyone has lived is 30. At fifteen years and
going strong, he aims to beat that record.
I write this because there are always people waiting for
organs. My brother was lucky, many are not. If you have not already done so,
please register. And, if you are not sure if you are on the list, you can checkit out here.
I know this a controversial subject with many sides, but I'm a big believer in organ donation, blood and bone marrow donation, etc. I'm happy to hear your brother is doing well! What an amazing gift. If god forbid anything ever happens to me like a sudden death, I hope that I can do the same thing for someone else.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Ms Typist, appreciate the support. Funny how I don't even think of the controversies around donating... totally off my radar. But I guess that is what happens when the story gets personal.
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